That Perfect Someone

THAT PERFECT SOME ONE

divorce rate

With the increasing divorce rate in years around the world, one may wonder what happened to the promising happily ever afters. Or is it foolish to believe that something like that ever existed. If yes, then what is the explanation for such drastic change?

prince princess

Well, every couple has its own reason to hate their partner but most of the problems arise while picking the guy/girl for marriage, yes choosing that perfect someone.

Now the first thing you need to do when you become of the marital age is to find yourself, know what you are capable of and what you want from your partner. If you aren’t born to be a house wife then hell no, you can never become a sound example of one. Don’t fool yourself making promises over couple of dates spent staring in his eyes.

the prince charming husband

Another thing to keep in mind before declaring your future partner is to allow the time for trust to develop. A marriage based on a few months relationship is hardly successful. Give time. Don’t rush.

Okay so coming to the crispy part. 5 humanly things to look for in a guy/girl you want to marry.

1) Choose Your Company Wisely: Hang out with people whose behavior is not so similar to animals. Like people who just don’t eat, sleep and roam around the world aimlessly, but People with aims and motives.

2) Does he/she follow rules?

Does the guy/girl have certain code of life? Does he/she pray 5 times a day? Does he/she fast? If he/she can’t stick to such easy rules then you can yourself judge what sort of partner they’ll make.

3) Does He/She Respect the Women/Men in their family?

If they can’t show respect to their blood relations, the person who brought them in the world, their family then you know where you are going to stand when you become a part of that home.

4) What’s the Quality of His/Her Lies?

We all lie. That’s a fact, but what you need to ask is how big his/her lies are? How often does he/she lie? Does he/she feel guilty about lying? What does he/she lie for?

wife and husband

5) Being Responsible Counts!

The most important ingredient for a wonderful marriage is a responsible partner. You surely don’t want someone who’ll be busy partying the night out when they are supposed to be home dealing with important family issues.

Well, these were the few basic facts which make someone a good person, facts which the media and novels fail to point out, the REAL stuff, the important stuff! And by the time we realize what is missing it’s too late.

Have a happy reading!

Javeriya Sayeed Siddiqui

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18 responses to “That Perfect Someone

  1. Hello I definetly love this article and it was so pleasing therefore I am surely going to save. One thing to say the Indepth research you have done is trully extraordinary . No one goes that extra mile now days? Well Done .. Just another advise you shouldintroduce any Translator for your Worldwide Readers !

  2. I’m still learning from you, while I’m making my way to the top as well. I certainly love reading all that is posted on your website.Keep the aarticles coming. I liked it!

  3. I know I might be a sucker for romance and yes yes yes you do marry your mother in law not just your husband =D But well all you said is good and well but with no magic. Yes it’s becoming harder by the minute too believe in that but obviously the majority does or they would not continuously complain of something missing! Something out of place,odd, despite divorce rates, life’s catastrophies and drama. People still look for the one for magic=) Appreciate the advice though =)))

  4. Excellent read, I just passed this onto a colleague who was doing a little research on that. And he actually bought me lunch because I found it for him smile So let me rephrase that: Thanks for lunch! “England and America are two countries separated by the same language.” by George Bernard Shaw.

  5. 🙂 Nice Thoughts 🙂

    But, When these 5 crispy things count? after or before declaring ur love for someone !!!:P 🙂 ..What makes a male and female live together till their death?? Its a question which can not be answered by some hard and fast rational reasons…

    I found that The “Love” factor is missing throughout the blog 😛 🙂 … If i am chosing someone to marry than all your 5 rules matter… with a lil bit of irrationality and thats Love… and this is what makes a relationship last…

    The reason of increasing divorce rate is quite simple, Mostly People marry eachother on the basis of stupid physical/materialistic attractions which disappears in days and then they discover the face behind the face 🙂 which is not what they percieved to be like… 🙂 and there comes a serious incompatibility…

    All we need be is to remain sincere with ourselves and others. Relationships only last when they are made on Truth respect and Love… adding these 5 crispy things ;)…. So we should not pretend to be what we are not… and improve what we are… and then its for sure that we’ll find the one like us …

  6. the thing is you cant help falling in love….you can fall in love with any one but to start and lead a successful life…love isn’t the only thing needed….you need to check the compatibility too…..sometimes love isn’t enough….you need a trustworthy. responsible and compromising partner.
    u should look out for all dese 5 thngs BEFORE steppin into a serious relationshp.. if dey have all dese along wd love trust and respect, then only can he make a gud future husband/wife.. being a gud responsible husband is nt jus based on love..u both might share infinite love but the Q is can he manage a family,be a gud father?

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