THAT PERFECT SOME ONE
With the increasing divorce rate in years around the world, one may wonder what happened to the promising happily ever afters. Or is it foolish to believe that something like that ever existed. If yes, then what is the explanation for such drastic change?
Well, every couple has its own reason to hate their partner but most of the problems arise while picking the guy/girl for marriage, yes choosing that perfect someone.
Now the first thing you need to do when you become of the marital age is to find yourself, know what you are capable of and what you want from your partner. If you aren’t born to be a house wife then hell no, you can never become a sound example of one. Don’t fool yourself making promises over couple of dates spent staring in his eyes.
Another thing to keep in mind before declaring your future partner is to allow the time for trust to develop. A marriage based on a few months relationship is hardly successful. Give time. Don’t rush.
Okay so coming to the crispy part. 5 humanly things to look for in a guy/girl you want to marry.
1) Choose Your Company Wisely: Hang out with people whose behavior is not so similar to animals. Like people who just don’t eat, sleep and roam around the world aimlessly, but People with aims and motives.
2) Does he/she follow rules?
Does the guy/girl have certain code of life? Does he/she pray 5 times a day? Does he/she fast? If he/she can’t stick to such easy rules then you can yourself judge what sort of partner they’ll make.
3) Does He/She Respect the Women/Men in their family?
If they can’t show respect to their blood relations, the person who brought them in the world, their family then you know where you are going to stand when you become a part of that home.
4) What’s the Quality of His/Her Lies?
We all lie. That’s a fact, but what you need to ask is how big his/her lies are? How often does he/she lie? Does he/she feel guilty about lying? What does he/she lie for?
5) Being Responsible Counts!
The most important ingredient for a wonderful marriage is a responsible partner. You surely don’t want someone who’ll be busy partying the night out when they are supposed to be home dealing with important family issues.
Well, these were the few basic facts which make someone a good person, facts which the media and novels fail to point out, the REAL stuff, the important stuff! And by the time we realize what is missing it’s too late.
Have a happy reading!
Javeriya Sayeed Siddiqui